Dating tips
Why do men pull away suddenly after dating them?
Do you have the answer to why men pull away suddenly after dating them for sometime? Maybe you’re still wondering why they behave the way they do.
You go out on a date with this man for the first time and everything is fine. He’s all smiles, seems to have liked you and promises to call you back the next day. You go home and you can’t believe it’s happening. The guy is amazing. He calls you as promised to meet for a second date. This time you take things further by getting to know each other more. You go back home, all is well. You’re in love.
Then you meet again for the third date. The man you just met has been thinking about the relationship but pretends to still like you to avoid hurting your feelings. According to you, everything is normal. He promises to call you the next day and this time he doesn’t.
What just went wrong? This man never showed any signs of leaving. The answer is simple. When you went out the first day, he had some fun with you and was happy because there was no pressure of really being serious. The second date as well. Now that things are about to change, he’s scared you might want him to show some seriousness about the relationship. Men get scared even if you don’t say anything about commitment. So the only choice he has is to pull away suddenly so that he doesn’t hurt your feelings.
What happens next?
You start with these questions:
• What really happened?
• Is anything wrong with me?
• Did I say something that offended him?
• Is there another woman?
• If not, why is he not calling?
You torment yourself with all these questions thinking that there must be something wrong with you. The actual reason here is that this man is not ready for any serious relationship. Such men get scared even if you do all the right things for them. Nothing is wrong with you.
On the other hand, if you feel that something went wrong. You better ask him to just clear things up.
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